a bum/pear shape is better than boobs

by charlie

i am absoloutly shocked that the majority of women on this site have actually had bad comment on their breasts!

i dont know why but i have never really had this, i dont know wheather it is because i actually dont care and am so confident with my body or it is because the only body 'problem' i have had to cope with and have had griff with is my height being 4.11!

the only time someone said anything about my 32a's was in year 10, so i was 14 and a supposes friend who was a girl called me flat chested, but she has always been starange, nasty to everyone but the funny thing is, she has not much bigger breast than me!
enitially, of course i was a bit upset but i shared it with my health and social care class at college that day and felt better and friends reasured me that i was totally in proportion and any bigger boobs i would look out of proportion because lets not forget how tiny i am!

guys have never said anything nasty, boob men or not and this makes me feel lucky because so many of you have had bad things said and that is not good!

i guess you just HAVE to be confident!

i know that it is probably eaiser said then done and i do not really have many helpful suggestion on the subject as i have always been confident and at only 16 now to feel 100% confident with my body is pretty unusual and i have had my fair share of nastyness, i find this terrible upsetting that this should be unusual, all women should be happy with their body!

we are what we are and it is like humans constantly need something to be unhappy about because if you had big boobs natuarly, i am sure you will be wishing they were small because of back pain, not being able to go braless, sagging more ect or if it wasnt the boobs, i can garentee that you would be worring about some other unessisary 'problem'!

from my short life so far my experience of beauty and sexiness is a big, round bum, this is probably through culture of black bluse music artists but even so, i am white! this is what i have grown up with, my mum, my sister and i all have 'a bum', hips, tiny, slim and small boobs! it is so much sexier and quite frankly big boobs are boring and over rated. guys look at my bum and make good comment, i like this and would not trade this for 'boob comments' because i love having small boobs! i just think pear shape is sexiest!

but really, having small boobs helps you know that a guy really done like you, most of the time unless he is a jerk! you will not have any less guys running after you and usually it is the beautiful face that guys are drawn to first wich every body has! and the rest of the body is second.