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Thank you Jason for your post.
Although, I have no idea what you want to say in your last sentence.(If you read the pages a bit, probably you figured, I don't speak fluent English. Sorry.)
I have no idea why you connect this site with feminism. It has nothing to do with that!
And I don't understand this one either: "
Men are programed to look at breasts. Simple fact that anyone ever seeing a baby can confirm." What's the connection?? Not too much, in my opinion.
Yes, men are programmed to look at breasts. And they will like natural bigger looking breasts. No questions about that. But does it really matter when it comes to a serious relationship? You have answered to that!
If you read well, we are not against breast augmentation surgery but only as the last option. It is your/her choice! If you KNOW that this is the only way to happiness, well, do it! ((But what really happiness is?))
And let's not make B.A. as something minor as you said "change back" if you don't like it. We are not talking about getting our nails done! Or even getting braces.
Plus, you don't want to get a B.A. to get reassurance from others: "If the change is good, people will tell you,..."
Anyway, I truely appreciate your comment.
She is a very lucky girl and I see why you are for B.A. You are defending her all the way. "I'd love her always in all ways." That is very sweet. But if it is true, breast size doesn't really matter even for you. If you are with the right person, you will love her/him no matter what.