Breast size matters. Sorry.




I've had a 32AA almost all my life. And I could write a book about how much suffering and insecurity it gave me! It gives you a different personality.... You grow up without confidence... Everybody here is talking about small and perky breasts being nice. Of course! That's understandable! But what if you don't have even that? What if you have no roundness, no perkiness, no NOTHING! What if you are as flat as a board?! Does that look attractive too?! B.S.!
I also had breast implants for some time, and had them removed due to complications. But let me tell you, I would tolerate all the pain and spend all that money again in a heartbeat! Even though they are (were) fake they make you FEEL different about yourself. Read all those psychology studies of breast augmentation patients! Yes, there is this insecurity in a new relationship that has to do with implants... But it never gave me a problem. The 32AA breasts did!
Yes, there is a society problem that puts so much emphasis on the breasts. More than on any other part of the body.
And there are also genes and body types characteristic for different countries. If you live in the U.S. and have no breasts you are in trouble, because this is the country of narrow-hips-sometimes-fat-waist-and-big-boobs girls.
And don't think a girl with breast implants is shallow (stupid, primitive, you can add whatever you want), you are very wrong! It only means YOU are shallow. There are different situations and different reasons for cosmetic surgeries and it cannot be always used to judge people.






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Breast size matters. Sorry.

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Jul 02, 2010
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by: Anonymous

ok to the first anonymous girl, calm down. She's a young girl with particularly small breasts attempting to feel good about them in the context of a world that worships women for their beauty and sex. The world's gone ahead and defined both of those things for us (not limited to but certainly including ideal breast size) so if she feels some insecurity about her body, it may not be entirely her fault, perhaps we should be a little nicer. I have a [FULL :O] A cup, and resultantly, I have issues about the size of my breasts even though they're quite nice. I can only imagine how I would feel if they were any smaller. It seems to be true that while men have preferences in either direction, and some aren't bothered at all when their preferences are not met, a completely flat chest is no one's - to have or to hold. I like to think of women like kate hudson and kiera knightly who have little girls and are so astoundingly beautiful - much having to do with their confidence. There's nothing wrong with the decision to get implants. The problem seems to be in determining whether they're for yourself or an externally imposed insecurity. Make sure you allow yourself to get to know yourself better before making the decision, there's no hurry, your boobs aren't getting any smaller. But my idea, and I quite like it, is to wait until i feel satisfied that I've procreated and nourished enough and then it's time to reclaim my body and it's glory days. I imagine my boobs won't be quite as pert as they are now by the time this process is complete, so I'll have something worth "correcting" at which time I'll choose my boobs out of a bleeding catalogue for all I care. Until then, I'm going to work on being happy with what I was given..because I think it may always be the case that the biggest boobs are a worse buzz than the smallest. ps. it seems there's a lot more that can go aesthetically wrong the bigger they get :S. At least they're physically if not psychologically comfy.
Jun 30, 2010
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by: Anonymous

as for the 5th grade girl in a b cup, who went on to be the 6th grader in a c, 7th in a d, 8th in dd, 9th in a ddd...only to end up now in her mid 20's as a HH? growing up, teased as "tits" and "missles"...called a slut, grabbed, molested? are these the things you dream of, princess?

get fucking over it. everyone, especially women and girls, have their self-esteem issues, and you know what? it starts on the inside.

not all men like big or even medium perky breasts, anyway. some like little breasts. are the men who like little breasts not good enough for you? are you better than the men that like you?
Jun 18, 2010
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by: Anonymous

It was refreshing to read this post, even if I don't agree 100%.

Living with a flat (and I mean flat) chest is so hard. I have a 34AA cup, and have been struggling with the idea of getting implants. And I have a perfectly happy relationship where my boyfriend of 7 years loves everything about my chest. I would be doing this for myself.

I've scoured the internet looking for people like me who aren't even an A cup, who couldn't even get a swell over their shirt with the best wonderbra, and couldn't find anything. It's downright frustrating.

I personally don't want to get implants because I want to breastfeed one day and don't want to risk losing that ability.

Thanks for posting your frustration.

I know that my lack of confidence is not because of the models I see on TV and in magazines (I don't want to look like that, really!!). I just want to feel feminine and sexy. I know I know, "Sexy comes from within" you might say, but just having the tiniest bit of breast I think would really help with my self-confidence.

Thanks to this site, too. Providing a place for people to talk about these issues is really important.
Apr 03, 2010
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by: Admin

Hi,

this site has a lot of pages but I can only hope that we NEVER said that any girl who are getting breast implants are stupid, primitive or shallow. If you can point to those pages it will be the first thing we will remove.

However it is true that this site is more for supporting those who want to stay natural. But you are right. Feeling insecure and lacking confidence can come to a point when it does more harm if you don't get implants than if you do. It is very said but it is true. And I am truly sorry that it did not work out for you.

I just hope you will find peace one day. Because I am positive that if you find the right partner your breasts size will never be an issue for him. It will always be and issue for YOU but not for him. I really wish you the best.

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