Dave

I am a 42 year old man. I can tell you for an absolute fact, beyond any doubt whatsoever, that breast size does matter to men. Here is what you probably don't know, more men prefer small breasts than large ones.

"all men want big breasts, the bigger the better" is the social stereotype of the average man, but it just isn't so. How do I know this? Because I have spoken to hundreds of guys thousands of times about this very subject. When we hang out with our buddies, just guys, doing anything, the conversation will inevitably turn to sex

We get pretty specific about what we do and do not like.

Often, I find that women are clueless about what really drives a man crazy with desire. You are dead on above when you mention that men are very attracted to confidence (not to be confused with agressiveness).

Speaking for more than a few men, I can tell you that we love it when women with small breasts do not try to make them look bigger by wearing a big puffy bra, but instead show them off with confidence! they are perfect as they are, dont fall for the media BS, and please, please dont stress about it, you could get any guy with small breasts, it's not a handicap.
In fact, it just might turn out that the guy you really want, only likes small breasts.

Oh yeah, and there are a few guys who only like huge boobs, in my experience they are usually ugly loudmouth jerks.

Also, and this is very important, extremly important... DO NOT, under any circumstances get breast implants! We men find them disgusting! They look ridiculus and dont move naturally at all. Most of my friends would not date a woman with implants even if she was perfect for them in all other ways.

Lastly, remember that there is a whole lot more to attraction than breast size. I was glad to come across this website and hope that my message gets out to as many women as possible with small breasts, your body is beautiful, stop worrying about weather it fits some mold, men like and can appreciate a variety of body types. Just give us a chance!