My boy's last girl was a D cup...and he HATED IT! by: Anonymous
Just like the title says, I've been with this guy for almost 5 months now and I'm a small C and his last girl was a D and whilst not all D's are ugly her's was. The first night he saw mine the first thing he said was "you can actually see the nipples" because his ex girls sagged so bad the skin of the breasts actually caused the nipples to "hide". Mine are perky, round, and bouncy and he loves it! Think of it this way, you've been together for a long time hell I still have insecurites with my boy sometimes, he says he likes big boobs he won't lie to me but he also likes small ones too. He enjoys fondeling mine and he's been with girls of all breast sizes and he's been attracted to all of them. He knew a girl in Basic *army* that was as flat as a board but her confidence made him actually want to sleep with her *this was before we met*. He helps me feel good all the time, he's only a healthy male so it's normal for him to look at other girls and he'll say to me "you know there was a girl I noticed in Walmart and she was smaller then you and if I was single I'd go out with her" and it just reminds me that you don't have to be big to get a guy's attention, honestly I love it when he says things like that because it makes me realize that he looks for more then a chest size and since I'm so trusting of him his comments like that don't even sting in fact it makes me more confident that I attract more men then I think. Ask him what he truely thinks of your chest, watch you'll get good feedback but be prepared if he drops the "well if your breasts where big it'd be cool" bomb, my boy did but he also said that it's not neccessary and that if I got big boobs he'd still love me the same way he does now, he's an honest man he doesn't like to beat around the bush to make people feel better he tells me straight up what he thinks even if it hurts me and you may think I'm crazy but I actually like that in a man because then I know that when he says something along the lines of "I think your small breasts are sexy and they fit your body" I know he's not lying. He's also told me that because of my spinal problems if I had big boobs I'd more then likely be in a wheelchair since my spine can't take much pressure and he'd rather me be happy and healthy with small boobs then unhappy and insecure in a wheelchair with DD's. Just have an honest talk with your man and if he's anything like my man he'll tell you the truth even if it hurts and if he does then don't take it too personally, my boy told me he would think big boobs on me would be cool but he also said that if they sagged like Amy's did he wouldn't find it attractive so he says shape before size.
Feb 08, 2010 Rating
Stop thinking like this by: Anonymous
Hannah,
You must stop thinking like this! He has been with you for 2 years and he wants to move with YOU to NZ. He had girlfriends with big breasts prior but he wants to be with YOU. What other proof do you need that he loves you (your personality and kindness) and not your lack of big breasts? You really need to give credit for yourself and start to appreciate your relationship. He is here NOW so appreciate his love and appreciate your body.
Similar cure similar. Have you heard this one before? I think you need to help people who are suffering from eating disorder. You can volunteer but you need to help. At the end you will realize that actually those people will help YOU to feel better about yourself. You will realize how much breast size is not the issue.
