Help Bring My Confidence Back!

by Jess
(Australia)

I have a boyfriend, who is a LOVELY and adorable guy. We have been going out for 4 months. He seems happy with my bust size... but then when we were first dating, we had a conversation that lead on to breast size. He said he preferred bigger boobs ( C to D cups). I told him all the benefits of having small perky boobs; that I was more sensitive, had a higher sex drive (I read somewhere that smaller breasted women have a higher libido), I wouldn't get any back problems and/ or breast cancer.....oh and that they wouldn't sag.

I was, and I'm saying WAS confident with my breasts until he said 'that it was a compensation for having such small breasts'. After hearing that my self esteem was non existent and I want to feel sexy again, but for some reason, even after four months what he wrote down on msn keeps playing in my head over and over again.

I have presented him the issue and he apologized and realized that wasn't the nicest thing to say and he says he loves me for who I am.....I still don't feel sexy, nor confident.

I do believe to the bottom of my heart that this guy is great. He is just the type to not think about what he's saying. I do however want to feel sexy again or I want that comment to escape from my memory and I want him to make me feel sexy again.

Small breasted sexy ladies (you know you're out there, and you know you are damn sexy!) and gentlemen. Please bring my confidence back!!!!!! I'm tired of finding myself crying before I go to sleep!!!