how men perceive small boobs

by Marina

Hi, first of all I would like 2 express my hearty thanks 4 creating such a website that has given inspiration and console too so many women worldwide! By going through your website I have a lot more self confidence about me that was not there before. So keep it up! :)

I'm 17 yrs old and I am a 34A cup and not also so evenly proportioned. My right boob is half inch smaller than my left one. My other sisters, one three years older than me and than other one is five years younger than me, have the same problem of not evenly proportioned breasts.

I discussed with my older sister, who is a cup bigger than me, about having small breasts, and she had assured me that a guy would care far less about your boobs and hardly notice small size if they are real guys and like you for who you are.

I found it very much comforting because the main concern is about the reaction of guys when they see your small boobs. If they are fine about your boob size, then who cares whether your boobs are small or not?

Admittedly its not so easy. And finding the right guy is also not. But my sister also said that its not guys who make the boob size issue a great deal, its the girls who do it! Because they think that guys think the same way too!

And regarding porn, where many guys would be seen drooling over pictures of girls with big boobs, its only their body image that they care about. And that too its temporary. If they actually love a girl, they would not care the slightest about whether their boobs are "big" or not and only that they are able to get the privilege of seeing and holding them, and that is what is everlasting.

And you said right about the crying, whining n nagging part. If the girl of the man is like that, the man would get extremely turned off and may even go to find console in some other woman, who may even have small boobs.

Like I said, its easier said than done. I would love to be a 34B at least, but den 34A is fine with me. And yeah, I have body issues as well like any other girl. But I only say that do not think men think of you as having small boobs; the guys who were interested in me hardly even looked at my boobs, if they care about beauty than its mainly having a pretty face and a nice personality, and that is what they term beauty as. So I say cheer up girls, and go out and meet people with confidence as thou u don't have any body issues, and you will be surprised at the response from other people, who also wont care about your body image either!