I am not sexy enough?

by Ellen
(WA)

Hi. I am 38-year-old Asian who is 5'2" (around 158cm) and 118lb (around 53kg) with small breasts.

I started dating with a man who is 8 years younger than I am and who is very kind and loving. I know I am lucky, but I have something on which I really need someone's advice. This is the reason why I am writing here.

One day, I was with my boyfriend, and we were talking about back-pain (I had a back ache at the time). He said that his ex had a back pain, and then she found it was because she was wearing a wrong size bra. Now, my boyfriend told me about the story, and he asked me what size I was. I hesitated to answer, but I thought it was easier now telling him the truth than later. So, I honestly told him "how small" my breasts were. Next moment, I felt I wanted to hide in a hall (if there was)...

He said that my breasts were a lot smaller than his ex who told him the same size. He was convincing me that I should wear a smaller size bra and that my breasts were a lot smaller than the size I said. By hearing his expressions and words, he sounded he wished mine were a lot bigger..... I guess my face had some expression on it, and he realized that what he said. He started saying he liked mine, he didn't care about size, etc.

Since then, I lost self confidence. I am shamed to be naked in front of him. I bought a bikini for summer before the conversation with him, but now I even cannot look at the bikini.

My boyfriend noticed that I have been very down lately, and he tells me how much he loves me. BUT I feel I am not sexy enough for him, and I am not good enough as a woman. And, I feel that he says such things (like he doesn't care about size, etc) because he feels obligation to say so for me. I also feel I am so ugly because of my small breasts.

What would you do if you were me? would you please give me your advice to get rid of my negative feelings and thoughts from my mind?

Thank you.

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