I feel like I can't win!

by Kristy
(UK)

I am totally confused.There are some guys here that like bigger boobs but only natural.. (so no hope in hell for the rest of us)!!

I'm a female, 18yrs old and I am a small size 34b. I have always been self conscientious of my boobs with the media/lads mags always showing that women with larger boobs are more attractive/ sexy.


So the pressure was on and self esteem is at an all time low as it makes me feel like I'm not attractive unless I have them. I must say that that is not the only reason why I currently don't like them.


I was scared about getting close with my first bf as I was worried he wouldn't like them. Anyway when we finished he would send me pictures of women with larger boobs and kept dropping hints. Also he would tell me that he preferred women with porn star like boobs. (wow what a disappointment I must have been) Can I find a guy who will like me with small boobs? Anyway since then I don't want to take my top off for a guy as I'm scared I will get the same reaction.




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Nov 21, 2009
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by: Anon

besides that there are most obviously men in various categories who:
1)don't care all that much about shape/size/color
2)prefer small peaches to watermelons
3)enjoy the perfect handful
4)actually don't prefer/desire huge mammories
5)romanticize the CLOSER proximity to our hearts,
don't agonize. your last dude was a dud! not because of his preference or whatever, but because of his behaviour/excuses. our boobies are precious. mind them well. not just anyone deserves yours. btw i was just telling my husband that it's amazing how enthralled the art world has been with breasts, for centuries! big ones and little ones. admit it, we all like them :)
my friend N likes skinny guys. she is a big girl, including the chest she plans to reduce! i like the pleasantly soft warm belly on my trim husband. my little friend likes the chub on her fiance. i have tried to increase my breast so N & i made a pact of my getting a donation from her surgery LOL. now you tell me if you can pick out a handful of girls you know that want the EXACT same guy. so now you realize that unless you live in a cave, we you can be a winner. period!

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