i want to help you, please read! :)

by Charlie
(South East of England )

hello everyone! ;)

i really wish women felt confident about their bodies, i find it such a shame when people worrie that their boobs are too small, its a waste of your life!

i am only 16 so have little experience of life but i can tell you a few little things i know from having small breasts! :)

from my experience guys dont care about boob size coz boobs are boobs and they love them, its just that they dont comment on them as much, isnt that a good thing? do you want a guy/girl looking at your boobs not you all the time?
also you can hardly blame a guy for alway looking at the big ones, i am sure you do, everyone does, it donest mean they like them more, they are jus hard to miss.

small boobs are a blessing, i actually feel sorry for the bigger breasted women as it cause HEALTH issues, isnt health more important than what they look like or what guys think of them? personally i would not ever trade my 32a's for pain, unwanted attention ect, think about it! :)

i had my prom recesntly and i wore a lovely dress with a criss cross back, i couldnt ware a bra, not even a strapless one, and i could get away with it! i still looked good and more importantly felt good because small is elagant. any way i sat oppisite some boys (friends of course) and there were star sequins on the table and they were try to throw them down my dress (breat area) hahaha and its coz i guess the prospect of a girl not wearing a bra underneath that sexy dress exited them, it had nothig to do with size, one of the guys did comment on the small size (not a nice comment) but he didnt matter to me, i dont fancy him, never will, he is an annoying person and with out disrespect, i think it will be harder for him to get a girlfrien than for me to get a boyfriend lol! :P

many guy have looked commented and felt my small boobs and non of them had bad feed back haha i guess coz they wouldnt bother touching them if they didnt like small boobs! i dont try to fake my size i wear my actualy size with no big air or gell fillets coz they are uncomftable! and it is not hard to look sexy in a small, lacey bra ;)

i know that the prospect of becomming confident must seem difficult and daunting for many if you really do not like your boobs and it will take work.
i think the only good tips i have is look at your boobs, stare at them at differnt angles, i will be hard to be happy with them at first but you will learn to love them in the end. foccus on a different part of your body that you love or your amazing personality.
another thing i have done is going out to walk my dog with out a bra on, if you dont have a dog jus go for a walk, i went to the woods, go to wood near you or a grave yard, some where peacful and quiet or somewere that attracts older generations coz you are not trying to immpress them, are you (if you are young, or you could do visa versa if you are older haha) :)

you will have days you love your boobs and day you dont, thats just life, dont put yourself down!

please just think of it as a blessing, think of your good health and beautiful personality and anything and everyone that make you happy, in the end there the only things that matter!

also, one last thing (if you have kept with my long message haha) just think, i do all the time and tell friend and family for reasurance, a guy/girl will never marry the 'perfect' big boobed beautiful girl if she is nasty, it would be a waste of time, he just wants a nice personality ;)

dare yourself to do things you wouldnt usually do to build body confidence and soon you will learn, plenty of guys/girls like small boobs and if a guy/girl is a 'boob guy/girl' it dosent mean he/she just likes them big!

really it only matters what YOU think, not that guy/girl, they can either have you as you are or jog on! :)

thanks for reading, im sorry it was soo long, i hope i have helped at least one person and just carry on working on it, you will get there in the end!

good luck xxx