if you are struggling with your body image, pleassee read this.

by stacy
(ny)

i am a 20 year old female, and for the majority of my life i have had self esteem issues. through out junior high, and high school my breast size always paled in comparison to all the other girls around me. i would literally spend hours every night when i was youger PRAYING for my breasts to grow.

eventually i slowly progressed to a full b cup, and this happened when i shifted my focus from self hatred to self adoration. of course every woman wishes for more, but the key is to adore yourself for your individual beauty.


i like to think of every woman as having beauty completely of their own. in reality, there are thousands of women in the world who would be so grateful to have your beauty, and you must not take any of it for granted. even if its internal beauty. you have to cherish it.


in my opinion, the more "perfect" a womans body is, the less beautiful and intelligent she is internally. however; when a woman is self confident, despite the fact that she is not "perfect" it makes them even more radiant and beautiful than any of the other "perfect" women.

if you find yourself in a relationship in which you become enraged and jelous when you see your partner even notice another woman, it helps tremendously to appreciate that womans beauty but at the same time appreciate your own unique beauty. focus on the traits and the things that you have, that you wouldnt give up for anything.

and just some tips for feeling insecure about undressing and being naked in front of other people:


-when your having sex, be on top. youll feel more beautiful and in control, and its a great angle for them to see your breasts.

-avoid undressing in bright lighting. no matter how confident you are, being nude in dim lighting is much more liberating

-dont slouch! hold your chest out with pride!

perception also plays a huge role in how you see yourself. i promise you that if you keep telling yourself that your breasts are so tiny, theyre gonna look smaller every day. but if you appreciate all youve got up there, theyre gonna feel bigger and bigger.

even though i am happy with what i have, i would find it fun and interesting to increase my breast size. ive been doing alot of research about the power of the mind over cell activity, and have been amazed.

im about to try hypnosis cds from a woman who i have been repeatedly recommended to. its kindof pricy but she has offered alot of free videos about hypnosis that are really amazing, so im going to try this.

below is a link to her cds for breast enlargement

http://www.wendi.com/html/breast_enlargement.html

theres a one year full money back garentee so im definately gonna try it out. you guys might be skeptical so ill let you know how it works out!