My husband loves my small breast and that's all that matters

(Seattle, Wa)

I have small breasts 32B (I was a 32A before birth control.) My husband is always telling me how beautiful they are, and in the past when I mentioned I wanted to get breast implants he hated the idea. I said it was for my self esteem and confidence.

He said I would draw the wrong kind of attention and that I get enough attention with small breasts already, I don't need to increase that attention. He also says I would actually make him unhappy by doing so. Because he is completely happy w/ my breasts now.

Also before meeting my husband I never had a hard time dating and never had complaints on their size.
But I heard some cruel immature, stupid jokes from time to time about being as flat as a board, and the media talks about being flat chested as a bad thing. Which is enough to make you believe you are'nt normal if you have small breasts. Which is a big lie.

I did research on google with the question: Do men prefer bigger fake breasts or small natural ones? And the obvious answer was/is smaller and natural are much better then big and fake. I've also heard of woman with natural big breasts who complain about back problems and have had breast reduction surgery and dislike the fact they sag and have stretch marks.

It also makes it harder to do everyday things like jogging, jumping, and dancing for example. I also did research on the consequences of breast implants.
The negative consequences are much greater then the positves. Which is only one: to feel better about yourself, and that may not even happen because some women actually regret it and don't feel happier.

Let me name a few that definitely made me change my mind. For one You lose sensitvity to touch/pleasure (huge deal breaker.) Possibility of rupture (scary.) It's major surgery, you can actually die.
(I would rather live and have small breasts then die while trying to make them bigger and possibly not even live to see the results)

Doing it before having kids and possibly not being able to breast feed. I want to breast feed It's what they were made for, sure the fact that it's pleasure for both men and women is an added bonus:). I'll repeat myself:

IF THE TWO MAIN REASONS FOR WOMEN TO HAVE BREASTS ARE FOR BREASTFEEDING AND PLEASURE AND BREAST IMPLANTS DECREASE PLEASURE, AND YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO BREAST FEED IT DEFEATS THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF HAVING BREASTS.

It would only serve as an object for men's lustful fantasies/imagination and nothing else, since most men don't even like how it feels, (uhhm another deal breaker.)
It is also expensive and requires maintenance about every 5 years. That would make me feel so selfish.Because the money could be used towards my children's birth or their education.

Also I probably wouldn't be completely satisfied. I read enough testimonies of women who did implants and either regret it or get no respect from men and get more critcism then when they had smaller breasts.
I am married to an amazing man who loves me just the way I am.

For those of you who are married and have small breasts you're husband most likely married you for you. Those of you who are single, The right man for you will also love you just the way you are. Your partner is the one who needs to be satisfied. Don't ask the wrong people for advice on this sensitive subject. Talk to people who truly care for you and they'll be honest. God created you perfect don't beleive the lies of society.

I could go on but I'll stop here. Be satisfied with what you have be it your height, weight, breast size, hair, color etc.. I hate the pressure the world puts on people to be perfect. We are all different for a reason. don't let other people's deprived opinions put you down. You are special and unique, there is absolutely no one else like you, value that.