Take Heart

by Charlie Brown
(SF)

I fell in love with my girlfriend over two years ago. I found beauty in everything about her. Her smile, laugh, eyes, wit, charm, voice et al. It just so happened she has small breasts. So what?! They are hers and she is happy with them and to me that confidence and happiness is sexier than a set of plastic ones that are sculpted by some doctor. I love to hold them and she loves to let me. They fit. Besides, as a runner and swimmer, she allows as how having smaller breasts than most women has helped her stave off the usual back and stretched skin problems that plague women who have large busts or who have opted to have large busts (installed?). Hers are perfect for her and while she jokes about her size with me, they are not a hangup for her. To me they are the perfect size made all the more beautiful by the woman bearing them.

I dated a girl some years back and later found out that hers were not real. She had size issues in her head. She told me she wanted the attention she saw other girls getting. I assured her that any guy that pays attention to her because of her bust size is not worth returning the attention to. It hurt me because even though they were very nice, she was still insecure about them and she would always feel that my reason for dating her would be her breasts. No amount of reassurance would convince her. She couldn't accept the fact I was interested in her for all of her other beautiful qualities. It was a sticking point for me among other differences and we eventually separated.

That experience helped me grow a sensitivity to what some women feel about themselves. I want to encourage every woman who reads this to be happy with themselves and celebrate their naturally smaller size. Be thankful for the lack of problems associated with large breasts. If the concern is appearing attractive to guys, the guys that pay attention to you simply because of bust size aren't worth it. They have other size issues if you know what I mean. There are a lot more guys out there who have their heads screwed on correctly and will appreciate you as you are. Be confident about your size. That's attractive.